“Tis the Season to be Jealous
For I was envious of the boastful, When I saw the prosperity of the wicked. Their eyes bulge with abundance; They have more than heart could wish. Psalm 73:3, 7 (NKJV)
There was a Facebook post begging parents not to teach their children that Santa brought them a gaming system, an iPad, or a TV. She was showing sympathy for those children whose parents cannot afford any of those things. The children, she noted, wonder why they do not deserve the same gifts as their more wealthy friends.
Being no fan of teaching children there is a Santa, we could just stop there and not have to lie to anyone.
However, children are not the only envious ones at this time of year. Our culture has so run away with Christmas that it has become a retailer’s dream come true. People want more than they can afford and spend more than they can pay. Retailers make sales, credit cards make interest, and individuals grow their debt and Christ is forgotten.
In Psalm 73 Asaph is expressing his dismay over the prosperity of those who boast and have an abundance of material goods and wealth. At this time of year, thanks to social media, we see the perfect decorations. Others throw the perfect parties, inviting the right people. Then, in a few weeks we will see a vast display of gifts we couldn’t afford. .
There is plenty for the human mind and heart to envy.
As with Asaph in Psalm 73, though he was complaining about the goods and sin of others, his eyes were on himself. He saw what he did not have compared to what they did. Sadly, this is often us. When we look around at what the world is doing; where others are going, or how they celebrate and spend, we tend to see more of what we do not have than what they do have.
The Psalmist comments on these people in verse 12, “Behold, these are the ungodly, Who are always at ease; They increase in riches. Surely I have cleansed my heart in vain, And washed my hands in innocence.” (Psalm 73:12-13, NKJV).
He explains that he has grown weary of trying to understand it in verse 16. Then, a light goes on in verse 17!
“Until I went into the sanctuary of God; Then I understood their end.” (Psalm 73:17)
Only when he began to look to the LORD did he see how temporary their “abundance” would be and how serious their sin was before God. They would perish without faith but God would continually hold Asaph’s right hand!
The reward for looking to the Lord is in verses 23 – 24, “Nevertheless I am continually with You; You hold me by my right hand. You will guide me with Your counsel, And afterward receive me to glory.”
We all have this tendency to be like Asaph. We can be jealous of others in the most worldly things when we have a heavenly hope that should be our greatest joy.
He finishes the Psalm like this:
My flesh and my heart fail; But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. For indeed, those who are far from You shall perish; You have destroyed all those who desert You for harlotry. (Psalm 73:26-27)
We should not be deceived. All those unbelievers do not change their position before God by an appearance of abundance and joy. Let’s end this Christmas season as Asaph does in verse 28, “But it is good for me to draw near to God; I have put my trust in the Lord GOD, That I may declare all Your works.”
Christ has come to save us from our sins (Matthew 1:21). Let’s only be jealous for Him and declare His works to the world…All. Year. Long.
Great reminder! Thank you!
What a wonderful way to use the concepts in Psalm 73 with the situation of today. This was the second psalm I memorized as a new Christian. I still return to it for the exact same reasons you have demonstrated. When I get weary with the world, I read the psalm again. And EVERY time, I reach verse 17, and my whole attitude changes!
Oh Linda, What a great Psalm to memorize and verse 17 is the “turning point!” Thanks for your testimony, I am challenged by it.
Thanks, Julie.
It’s so hard NOT to compare ourselves to others, to want what they have, but it’s so important in our faith walk to heed God’s commandment to NOT envy others and to love others. When we truly love others, we don’t begrudge them what they have.
Amen, sister! Rejoicing with those who rejoice!
When I feel that jealous feeling trying to invade my thoughts, I go to Him and ask for help.
Me too, Melissa, He is trustworthy!
This is a great reminder. Social media tends to only show the best of everyone’s lives so it can be easy to get trapped into making comparisons. Instead we you use this time to really draw near to God and focus on Him.
Thanks S.A., It is true that social media seems to always portray the best part of people’s lives. Our focus does need to be “on the things above!”
Great thoughts and amen
Thanks, Yvonne.
“Retailers make sales, credit cards make interest, and individuals grow their debt and Christ is forgotten…” This whole paragraph and concept was written so profoundly and is, sadly, SO true!
Thanks for reminding us all that God is our ultimate source of abundance! Bless you!
Thanks Elizabeth! I wish I had said “God is our ultimate source of abundance.” That was the point.
Thanks for saying so!